making a juror: eating my way through nyc jury duty | Chinatown, NYC

Last January 21st I was called for jury duty at New York City Criminal Court. I was annoyed (as everyone was), packed up my computer and a book and headed downtown to endure what would surely be the most boring day ever. Until I got picked for a 6 week murder trial! You could say that disrupted my audition season just a bit. However, if you've recently binged Making a Murder like me and half of America, you know it's anything but boring. 

First of all, NYC is far from Manitowoc and my judge with her sassy gray bangs would have never put up with half of that shit. My jury and I heard more details than we could imagine about how a young deaf man stabbed his younger deaf girlfriend to death and stuffed her body in a barrel...and all the sadness in life that lead up to that point and the subsequent horror. Though it was quite tough to digest, I found freedom (and warmth) between 1-2:15pm everyday when we broke for lunch. I figured if I'm going to be stuck in Chinatown in the middle of winter, why not take the opportunity to explore? Seriously-- New York City is your oyster if you have the eyes to see it. It can also make you pretty handy with a pair of chopsticks. 

hello chopsticks

In conclusion, I give you some lunch suggestions should you find yourself serving time down at the NYC courthouse:

First things first, honey dew melon bubble tea. On the regular. 

the holy grail that is bubble tea

Right around the corner is Pongsri (a popular Thai restaurant) and this bowl of heaven: Coconut Red Curry Noodle Soup. Ok I'm drooling... 

massaman coconut curry soup

A few more steps down the road and you're in pho heaven if that's your thing. (It's a little tricky if you're vegetarian...but I was an equal opportunity lunch juror so I found my ways of making it tasty.) Xe Lua was a happenin' and cheap lunch spot amongst the suits. 

pho for days

And dim there were sum. Some of the ladies on the jury insisted I join them at the "best dim sum in town" at Ping's...so we treated ourselves. #ladieswholunch

dim there were sum

Speaking of treating yourself...sometimes there is a parade thrown for you on your well deserved lunch break. Especially if it happens to be Chinese New Year

Pho for days at Vietnamese restaurant Nha Trang on Baxter Street.

and more pho

Walked an extra block one day (I know a lot of effort) for award-winning ramen at  Bassanova, and I can confirm it deserves all of its awards. And it was the most hipstery lunch I had during my 6 week residency...the only place that didn't have that grungy "local" vibe to it. Do the two go hand in hand?

bassanova
bassanova ramen

I decided to start going the budget route and made it across the usually Tai Chi -filled snowy Columbus Park where I got my fair share of warm plump veggie dumplings for $3 at Tasty Dumpling. Towards the end, this became my happy place. Quick, cheap, and indeed tasty. I know everyone recommends this place, but that was too far of a walk for my cold juror self. 

tasty dumpling
really cheap dumplings

One day, I was convinced to go on a grand lunch adventure over Canal Street and through the snow to Little Italy we went. The lunch at Buona Notte was cozy and the view from inside was dream.  

snowy little italy
now you see the pasta
now you don't see the pasta

And for dessert? Ferrara's is queen. It's famous for a reason. I would bring home souvenirs from here and other little local Chinese markets of candies and treats I'd buy and try. You don't know the neighborhood until you've eaten your way through it.

ferraras little italy

Last, and certainly not least, I have to give a shout out to my favorite bakery, Lung Moon Bakery. There, I would escape the conversation of murder by looking at cute little foreign desserts. Nothing bad could happen in a world like that, right? For a dollar, I'd buy angel food cake wrapped up in wax paper, kind of like a cupcake. And I'm fond of anything resembling a cupcake. I have such vivid memories of this cake. (It was also fun to buy bags of fortune cookies to take to your friends and jury family.) I highly suggest stopping in to this mom and pop shop the next time you're in Chinatown. These couple of streets are some in the few in the city that still feel like they have maintained their local feel and not become too commercialized. And English is not the first language!

Lung Moon Bakery
angel cake from heaven
welcome to chinatown

At the end of the day when walking to the train in the snow, you're hearing all these things in this case and thinking so many thoughts, and you're so out of the loop of your normal life and so cold, you might stop into Magic Jewelry on Canal Street and drink some hot tea and get your aura read. (oh, and it was Friday the 13th.)

Besides eating lunch, my jury and I became quite close-- planning potlucks, celebrating birthdays, teaching some old dogs new tricks on how to use their cell phones. Since we were all respectful of the rules, we really honored not discussing the case until it was time to deliberate. (and that was REALLY hard, because I like to talk about all my feelings...obviously...which is why I had to eat my feeling instead. note: still in recovery.) Instead, we got to know each other. I was the youngest white female by about 40 years, and I'd have to say it's quite an interesting group to pick a cross-section of Manhattanites to sit in a room. When I caught a cold, three different ladies brought in homemade soup and remedies for me. We had a group text. We kept in touch. We even had a dinner after it all passed over. Community can come in surprising places. (if you let it)

jury selfie

There was no doubt in my mind about our guilty verdict for our guy, but that didn't make any of us less heartbroken. I cried when I walked passed him on the last day of the trial knowing his fate, and months later we all were asking whether he'd survive prison given all that we learned about this individual. I'm a sucker for justice...and a redemption story. 

As we settle in for winter so is my deja vu and an appetite for dumplings. 

fortunes

ps: I know the groan and eye roll that comes when you get that jury summons in the mail. It's really f-ing annoying. But civic duties are no joke, and the system only works if we have active citizens. (read: your vote matters!) At the beginning of this journey, I thought my life was ruined because I was missing so many auditions and fell out of loop of the ole dancer's hustle. (Then it got further ruined when I started to eat my way through Chinatown as a coping mechanism. #jurydutymakingfat) But then whatever happened in that courtroom started to become way more fascinating than any audition holding room (they're the worst). I mean have you watched 4 sign language interpreters in action at once? This wasn't a CSI episode, it was real life. I accepted the challenge and tried to be as present in mind and appetite as possible. When it ended and I felt out of shape and completely hopeless as far as picking up any crumbles of hope of booking a dance job for the season, I get called for my first TV gig out of the blue (plug: check out The KNICK). They say you make plans and God laughs at them. Well, no shit. I couldn't have made all of this up if I tried.  

ps #2: I wasn't in search of what's the best of the best in Chinatown. I merely was searching for a break and a breath of fresh air everyday, a warm meal, and a little distracting adventure for my one hour of freedom. These are a collection of what I found. (critical of food, but not a food critic)

friday the 13th, aura readings, and chinatown

Looking for a personalized Friday the 13th activity? I got you. 

Last month, well more like the last 6 weeks, I was serving on a jury for a murder trial. It's true- I was stuck in court while Meg was island hopping around Southeast Asia! (cue tiny violin pity party) While this unexpected civic duty kind of took over my life, I decided to see it as an opportunity to explore a neighborhood that I don't really choose to spend time in anymore: NYC's Chinatown. Who gets excited when a friend says: "Let's go shopping on CANAL STREET!!" No one.

One of my friends gave me a healing crystal for my birthday back in December - she really wanted to protect year #twentyGREAT for me. She told me all about her experience heading down to Chinatown, spending time picking out the right stone for me, and explained to me how to take care of it. It was all really thoughtful. While she was there, they told her after spending a certain amount of money, she could get a picture of her aura taken for just $8-- so why not! She had a fascinating image full of deep red covering her body like fire, and they related it to the strong passion she had in her life. 

Sooooo on a freezing afternoon in Chinatown that just so happened to be Friday, February the 13th, what should a curious girl on a break from court do? Get a picture of my aura of course. 

aura on canal street

I headed to Magic Jewelry right around the corner (easily accessible via subway), which is supposed to give one of the best aura readings in the city. I walked into the small shop and was greeted immediately with two friendly faces. I expressed the desire to get a picture of my aura, and before I knew it I was sitting in a booth in the back of the store, staring into a big black box, and placing my hands on two metal plates. It felt like I was getting a portrait taken back in the olden days. 

It only took a few minutes for the photograph to develop, and over a cup of hot tea and a chakra chart, the nice man started reading my aura for me. 

magic jewelry
aura reading

As you can see from the arrows in the image below, there's a flow to the whole aura thing. The left side is your past few weeks, the top is your present, and the right side is your future. The blue on the left means that things are calm and smooth, and the white spots represent contemplation. The pinkish cloud hovering over my head says that I'm focused on a romantic or intimate relationship, and, again, the white spots represent that I'm thinking or over-thinking it all (geeez). The blue on my right is similar to that of the past- representing that the future is calm but brighter. And, yes, at this point, with more white clouds, I can admit that I think about things perhaps too much. (who doesn't?)  Blue on my body means that I'm calm on the inside and have a connection to spirituality, but my digestive system and/or womb may be a little weak. Overall, my aura is good, but it could be stronger. When you hear the phrase "you have a strong aura," that means that the image covers your whole body and face and you can't see the person through the strong color arrays. 

It was all kind of fascinating regardless of whether you believe it or not. It would be interesting to start a collection of pictures of your aura, right?! I say try something new, and we live in a city full of new things to try. You don't need to travel far for some #wanderlust...just Canal Street. So, if you find yourself in Chinatown... check out your aura. What do you think your aura looks like on this Friday the 13th? 

aura portrait

notes:

- $20 for a photograph of your aura, reading, and cup of tea. ($8 if you spend $25 or more in the store...)

- they say you can go back and get a new picture of your aura every few weeks. this could be a fun activity, or at least art activity. they haven't made an "aura" instagram filter... yet. 

- fun fact: meg and i used to live in a very itsy bitsy apartamento in chinatown. those good old days were filled with a single person fourth floor walk-up, non-consistent heat, mice, and lots of studying. oh, undergrad.