gift guide for the last minute gift giver

​Two thousand fifteen, you have been a doozy of a year.  We’ll get into this more later (I know. Get excited.  It’s just what you wanted for Christmas – me harping about the last 365 days) but for now let’s just acknowledge that maybe things didn’t go as planned for you this holiday season.  Perhaps you found yourself a tad bit overwhelmed and a hair underprepared and now you are very close the ‘F it’ stage of holiday cheeriness. Should you find yourself in a similar predicament, here’s a handy gift guide for those of us that are down to the wire.

DIY

Source: knitting

Source: knitting

Chore Coupons

Everyone loves having someone else do the things they would rather not do.  (Ten points if you followed that thought).  Some coupons could be cooking dinner for your takeout junkie, tour guide of a new/infrequently visited neighborhood for your new to the city bud, a night of babysitting for your post-knocked up loved one, and cleaning/organizing a room for your messy bestie.

Dinner + A Show

Two options with this one – you can go all classy and choose a restaurant followed by a show that requires you to sit in a theater (I call dibs as your date if you can manage to find tickets to Hamilton) or you can do my personal favorite of popcorn, favorite candy (if you don’t choose sour patch, you’re dead to me), and some quality streaming.  If you choose the latter, you can spruce it up a bit by wrapping up a jar of popping corn (stove popped > microwave popped) and a bottle of booze. 

Arts + Crafts

Nothing says love like something homemade, right? Right.  For those of us that aren’t too artistically inclined, knitting a scarf is pretty straightforward.  You don’t even need needles.  Also this gives you a reason to plop yourself in front of some Christmas classics all in the name of giving.  If you’re short on time, throw some salt and essential oils in a jar and call it bath salts (1/2 c sea salt + ½ c Epsom salt + ¼ c baking soda + 10 drops of essential oil).   My favorite is lavender - it looks extra pretty if you happen to have some dried lavender to mix in with the salts.  Or if you have a succulent lying around, bedazzle that jar instead and throw a clipping or two in it.  Just be sure to include instructions on how to care for it, i.e. don’t leave it in the closed container.

REDUCE, REUSE, RECYCLE

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The Classics

You know that book sitting on your shelf that you’ve read at least seven times?  The one that’s quoted all up on your social media?  That you enlighten others with its wisdom after one too many drinks?  Write a thoughtful note in it, wrap it up, and gift it to someone you think will appreciate it as much as you.  Embrace its worn cover and dog-eared pages.  These are just signs of love.  Also if anyone questions your motive of gifting a hand-me-down book, just explain to him or her that it’s for Mother Nature.  No one can argue with that.

Refined Apparel

We all have those articles of clothing taking up space in our closets that we swore we would wear.  And by we I mean I but maybe you do too?  As I type this, there is a secondhand Rag & Bone sweater that has never left my closet since it arrived here 3 months ago.  Pieces like these are begging to be packaged up and gifted to someone who will love them properly.  You can even call it vintage and then congratulate yourself for cutting out the middleman.  Look at you being thoughtful and thrifty.

FOOD

Christmas Cookies + Hot Cocoa Mix + Marshmallows

Some crowd-pleasing favorites include Dipped + Crisp Peanut Butter Cookies, Gingerbread Folk, Chocolate Crinkle Cookies, and Snickerdoodles.  You can pair your platter with the ready-made, prepackaged hot cocoa or be all fancy pants and put together your own mix.  You can even do the same with the marshmallows - I have holiday date with this recipe.

Tea + Honey + Biscuits

I came across this recipe for infused honey and I now have big plans for a couple of special ladies in my life.  Pair it with your favorite tea and biscuits for a complete treat.  If you have some time to twice-bake, you could even skip the biscuits and made some biscotti instead.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

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Hit the Slopes

If you know of a fellow slalom aficionado, perhaps someone you would even want to snuggle up next to after a day on the slopes, a lift ticket is the perfect gift.  This can be a pricy gift, so consider hitting up smaller mountains.  For example, a day at Killington is $94 but around the corner at Pico it’s only $72 (ha, I know… only).  Be sure to claim your student discount should that apply to you – 15% off is no joke.

Daytripper

There are numerous hiking trails within an hour or two train ride of NYC that are practically begging to be explored.  Create an itinerary complete with trail map and  mix.  If you need some trail suggestions, check out our previous trips or pretty much anything from this dude

Boulders + Booze

Ideally, you would have your own gear and head out into the woods to scramble up some rocks and follow it up with some congratulatory drinks at a local bar or at the very least a swig from your flask.   In case the cooler temps and damp weather have you wishing for something indoors, there are a multitude of climbing gyms to visit with gear to rent.  Chances are beer can be found nearby.  I recommend Brooklyn Boulders followed by a cold one at Threes Brewing.

Merry Christmas, folks! 

notes:

you may notice an abundance of jars being used throughout this post.  maybe you have a collection of weck/ball/mason jars in your home or you can be savvy and pull that tomato sauce jar out of your recycling.  give it a good scrubbing before gifting it though – no one likes the tacky glue residue.  no one.

need more gift ideas? check out last year’s guide here.  or check out our pinterest if you prefer to visually peruse.

thoughts from my shower

Some days I don't realize what's really happened until I'm taking a shower. Does that ever happen to you? I don't know if it's the running water that soothes and closes off the rest of the world that allows for such clarity to seep in. Or perhaps it's that I finally stop thinking and give myself a break, and all of a sudden my mind is able to connect things together. Anyway, my conclusion: my most cohesive thoughts and clearest ideas often come in the shower. 

grace shower

Like the other day, I conned my sister to come over to my new place after work...luring her with wine, because I needed her to edit a project for me (she's so fancy like that). What happened? While cooking dinner and chatting, I drank all the wine and Em put together the Ikea couch I had stacked in piles in the corner. She saw it there- I had unpacked it, stacked it up, but obviously hadn't made an attempt to figure it out. I was fine with letting it sit there for days- I had conquered so many to-do lists with the move and my brain was quite fried. I was like: why are beads of sweat coming down her face? I didn't ask her to build it; she just did it. She knew it needed to be done, and, like a boss, took the task into her own hands. (note: I don't think there are many people who could have built this thing solo. Emily, folks...she's an assertive one.)

couch boxes

Every time I anticipate feeling overwhelmed with dealing with so many things by myself, I'm not alone. I've had different people swoop in to force me to purge clothes that for some reason I still have from my high school years in Georgia, accompany me as I unload and explore a new hood, eat cupcakes and champagne with me, send me links to all their favorite apartment ideas, organize me, dance with me, dream with me. Meg is like a mega organizer. Emily is a do-er. Caitlyn stopped by to eat lunch and catch up, and after our (delicious) kale salads, we were on the floor talking the highs and lows of relationships. Meanwhile, I didn't even notice that we were unpacking more boxes and building some lamps. (let there be light!) Like where did all of these angels come from?? Seriously?? #soblessed 

built couch

Who needs a boyfriend when your sister can set up your internet on your TV, build your couch and bed, edit your videos, and pick out your wine glasses at Ikea when you're in the middle of a sugar-crash-meltdown after eating 2 bags of Swedish Fish? (Guys, there's like soooo many rooms in that store before you get to the kitchen stuff. Ikea is exhausting. The BIGGEST sugar crash.)

ikea swedish fish

I've always (tried) to prioritize people in my life. I try not to be too distracted with my own world to pick up on when a friend needs me to hop on over with wine in my sweats or send the sensible text filled with messages that only emojis can express. I'm not perfect at it, but I crave to love those dear to me. And when I was in the shower at the end of that day exhaling all the grime-- all the sweat from my 6 layers of clothing I wore out in the snow after dance class and the wine stains that dripped on me accidentally throughout the evening and the residue red lipstick from the biz meeting at the top of the day... I'm like: oh, wait. I may live alone in this new apartment. But I'm not alone.

Oh how I'm loved. Oh how lovely is community and family. They show up to do one thing, and they take care of what needs to be taken care of.

It makes you suddenly realize after shampooing and conditioning your hair (I mean dreadlocks by the end of the day when scarves are involved, am I right?) -- maybe the love you give to others isn't going into the infinite abyss. And maybe the love and care given to me is not going there either. Maybeeeee the love given and received is noticed and it means something. We were planting lupine seeds and we didn't even realize it. It's this wonderful circle effect that I hope keeps on giving.

And on that cold snowy night, when the temperature was barely two digits and the sun was only shining several hours a day... there was so much warmth. I sat on a couch that was built with tunes playing on the TV that I couldn't figure out, drinking wine in my towel after this shower, and I exhaled months of stress. I found a new happy place. 

notes:

- a visit to ikea brooklyn can be a pleasant and cheap field trip. i'd suggest taking the free water taxi, planning to eat once you get there (especially if you're into meatballs), and avoiding the weekends.

- making good friends is not overrated. 

- don't let to-do lists rule your world. 

diy christmas project

I finally got around last week to completing a Christmas project that I intended on making last year. Better late than never, right? It made for a good surprise and it was a lovely distraction while I procrastinated packing and purging my old apartment.

I present to you: our girly getaway!

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girlygetaway

Two summers ago, the three of us took a #girlygetaway for 36 hours. All Caitlyn said she wanted for her birthday was to escape somewhere (!!!don't we all!!!), and we were all like fine. Sign me up. It's stupid that you have to pick a date 6 weeks into the future to plan 36 hours out of the city! Our lives get a hold of our calendars and we wanted to be intentional about getting some time together and seeing the ocean that heals all! We headed to Ocean Beach on Fire Island and had quite a lot of adventures in 36 hours including: getting a flat tire in the middle of the queensboro bridge in 98 degree heat, witnessing the preparations for a beach wedding proposal, getting caught in an island blackout, running into the same newly engaged couple in a bar in that blackout... oh, and getting sunburned. In the middle of all of that somewhere, we had a freeing superhero moment on the beach; an impromptu iPhone photo shoot where we acted the only kind of crazy you can be around the best of friends. We were so free.

I took a screenshot of some of these crazy photos and put it on Instagram (see above), and these two have always said they wished they had a big version of this to walk by in their homes to make them instantly smile on a gray day. (Sign me up again!) 

I knew I couldn't blow the Instagram image up, because the quality would be too low. Instead, I got each individual image and printed it. I ordered minisquares from Social Print Studio; it was $15 for a set of 48, which worked out perfectly for me, as I needed 16 for each frame! (They delivered unbelievably quick too!)  I picked up some square picture frames at a Christmas Tree Shop (like a JoAnn's for us Southern folk) that had a canvas of a golfer inside. They were on clearance for about under $5 each, so I swiped up three of them, one for each of us. I couldn't make one for them and not for me too! I knew if I went to buy picture frames, I'd have to pay wayyyy more, which is silly. I'd either take Mr. Golfer out and lay him to rest or figure out something to do with him.

First, I organized the prints into the order they would appear in the frame. I may have put numbers on the back of them, because I'm a nerd and it could get confusing. I took apart the frames, weaseled my way inside, and realized I needed something to mount all these photos on. So, I removed the canvas, painted it white (Bye Mr. Golfer! It's true, I used you for your house), and stuck the photos on top! You could use heavy tape to do this or decoupage, depending on the frame you find and what you're mounting your photos on. I made sure the seal the back of the frame securely so we wouldn't lose anyone. 

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Voila! The girls loved them. I hope they continue to make us smile throughout the winter, that giddy sort of smile, and remember our next DIY summer getaway could be right around the corner!

What can you make the celebrate a travel memory that will also inspire  you to plan your next adventure? I think what I loved about this project was that it wasn't perfect- there isn't a perfect DIY formula, lo siento. Truly do-it-yourself. I didn't even paint properly in the lines. Find a vision, and find a way to blow it up and frame it. Happy Holidays!